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First Communion, step by step

Seven steps to understand what matters most about First Communion, each with a question, and a guide for parents preparing their children.

1. God made you his child

It all began at your Baptism: that is when God made you his child. First Communion continues on that path. Through Baptism, Confirmation, and the Eucharist, we enter fully into the Christian life. Catechism 1212

2. The Last Supper

The night before he died, Jesus ate supper with his apostles. He took bread, gave thanks, broke it, and said to them: "This is my body." And he asked them to do this in memory of him. Luke 22:19-20; Catechism 1412

3. Jesus is truly there

After the words of consecration, the host looks like bread, but it is no longer bread: it is Jesus himself, alive and whole. It is not just a symbol or just a memory. That is why we receive it with such great respect. Catechism 1341; 1374-1376; John 6:51

4. The Mass, step by step

The Mass has two main parts. First, the Liturgy of the Word: we listen to the readings from the Bible, above all the Gospel, and to the homily. Then, the Liturgy of the Eucharist: the bread and wine are brought to the altar, they are consecrated, and we receive Communion. Catechism 1346

5. I prepare with confession

Before your First Communion, you go to confession for the first time. And for one hour before receiving Communion, you do not eat or drink anything. Only water and medicine are allowed. Catechism 1387 and 1457; Code of Canon Law, canons 914 and 919

6. How to receive Communion

You come forward with respect and bow your head. The priest or the minister shows you the host and says: "The Body of Christ." You answer: "Amen," which means "Yes, it is true, I believe!" You can receive it on the tongue or in your hand. General Instruction of the Roman Missal, 160-161; Catechism 1064; 1396

7. After Communion

You go back to your place and stay quiet for a while. This is the time to talk with Jesus, who is with you, and to thank him. General Instruction of the Roman Missal, 45 and 88

For parents